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A MUST HAVE ON MY BLOG

I already reblogged this like 3 times but I have to again


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I am grade 12 student who has just recently graduated. You might call me accomplished, and in a way, I am, but not in the way you’d think. 12 years of pouring over text books and being lined up to be judged in front of my peers has not made me any more intelligent. I can tell you the first 45 digits of Pi and I can explain to you the difference between an acid and a base, I can recite the Pythagorean Theorem in my sleep, I will recite lines out of a textbook like they are a religion. But I cannot tell you the value of security, or of kindness. The distinct contrast between personal health and personal gain. I can tell you in grade 10 four of my classmates attempted to take their own lives before finals. I can tell you our counsellors office is always booked. I can tell you how when I didn’t understand something in AP Chemistry my teacher asked me to leave if I could not participate in his class. I merely asked him to explain a question. Instead of doing his job and teaching, he told me to leave. Told me I was not good enough to be there. Mistakes are viewed as failure in these hallways. A wrong answer is a sin you must atone to, not a human error, but a flaw so grand it defines your entire life course. There is no “average” here. We all must exceed expectations. Do your parents know that a grade that is considered average is a “C”? When I got a C in fourth grade my parents grounded me for a month. They said I was lazy and stupid and incompetent and that I’d better smarten up and stop fooling around. I never fooled around. I am driven by a deep need to impress others. I never fool around. I worked and worked and worked, with a deep hollow of anxiety in my chest. I have never been good at History, but I worked and worked and I attained at best a low B. It was not good enough. It is not said but we are expected to put our education before our personal health. It is not asked of us, but it is what we must do to achieve what we are asked to achieve. Our teachers will tell you, “Oh, I only give them one hour of homework each night.” Which is essentially true, each of my five teachers only gives me one to two hours of homework each night. Hmm, that adds up to 5-10 hours of homework, and overdue classwork, and projects. Say goodbye to sleep, say goodbye to feeling calm. I’ve developed a deep rooted anxiety disorder due to school and perfectionistic tendencies. Even when you get 100 percent on an assignment they still criticise you, it is never good enough. One slip, and you are in deep deep trouble. I can tell you that 90 percent of us try our hardest, and our teachers and parents stand in the sidelines, screaming, “You can do better than that!”
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Why I say our education system is flawed (via perfect-delusions)

this is so heartbreakingly true, and that fact is disgusting.

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THIS

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Fuck I want to cry.

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THIS IS MY FAVORITE 

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I hate when people post pictures of curvy women and caption it with things like “this is real beauty” because yes, curves are beautiful, but so is a slim figure. I’m tired of people saying that women can only be considered truly beautiful if they have full hips and a tummy. That is so contradictory because while there may be women who wish for a slimmer figure, there are also many who would kill for a fuller one. It makes me so angry that our society puts such an emphasis on comforting bigger women and censoring what we say to them in an effort to spare their feelings. Everyone always forgets about the skinny girls. It’s a crime to tell a fat person to lose weight or eat a salad, but no one ever thinks twice about telling a skinny girl to eat a cheese burger or to get some meat on her. Yes, being a size bigger than the average can be extremely hard on a persons self esteem, but being a size below can be just as damaging. There are so many girls who eat whatever they want but are just naturally very skinny. People always view this as a blessing but often, it’s a curse. A person can try their very best to put on weight, and still not gain a pound. How would you like it if someone came up to you and labeled you an anorexic just because of the way your body looks and your metabolism functions? Calling someone an anorexic can have the same damaging effects as calling someone fat and no one gets it. It is so hard to tell someone they are beautiful when a large part of the media promotes and sells skinny, and others take it to the opposite extreme and say “big is beautiful”. Big may be beautiful, but so is skinny. The media promotes a false image of beautiful because they so often show an unhealthy version of it. We need to stop judging and stop sugar coating everything because it’s getting us nowhere. Instead of saying one or the other is beautiful, we need to start telling people, especially young girls, that HEALTHY is beautiful. Because people can go to extremes to either gain or lose weight and both can be harmful to their health. You will never be unworthy if you have a little extra weight on your hips, nor will your value decrease based on the size of the gap between your legs. You are born with one body and will have it for the rest of your life, so instead of striving for a body that you weren’t born with, take care of yourself and love what’s been given to you. Big is beautiful, and skinny is beautiful. But regardless of your body shape or the number on the scale, Strive to be your best self and take care of YOU because it is YOUR body, not theirs. Healthy will always be beautiful.

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nah I think we should really stop glorifying cigarettes

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reblog and make a wish!this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

OH MY FUCKING GOD, IT’S BACK ON MY DASH.
THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.
The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.
AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.
THIS SHIT WORKS, TRY IT.

YOOOOOOO
I SAW THIS ON MY DASH THE OTHER DAY AND THOUGHT “ITS WORTH A TRY” SO I WISHED I COULD GET A 3DS
LITERALLY LIKE 4 DAYS LATER MY DAD SENT ME A PICTURE OF THE 3DS XL HE BOUGHT FOR ME WHILE I WAS AT SCHOOL
IM STILL FREAKING OUT ABOUT THIS

holy fuck, I didn’t expect this to work, I was like psh, whatever it’s just a quick reblog, but I wished my Dad would actually respond back to me AND HE FUCKING DID A FEW DAYS LATER, I GOT A FUCKING TEXT FROM MY DAD TODAY WHO HASN’T SPOKEN OR RESPONDED TO ME IN MONTHS HOLY FUCK WHAT IS THIS MAGIC IT WORKS. 

I WANTED TO SEE MY BOYFRIEND AND I DIDN’T THINK I’D GET DAYS OFF BUT THIS WEEKEND I’M HEADING UP THERE??? THIS IS CRAZY SHIT 

SO LIKE I JOKINGLY WISHED FOR MY OWN LEN KAGAMINE AND THEN LIKE A WEEK LATER I GOT A LEN NENDOROID??? H ELP

WTF OKAY SO THIS SHOT ACTUALLY WORKS BECAUSE WHEN I WISHED, I HAD WISHED MY CRUSH WOULD LIKE ME BACK AND GUESS WHAT? I HAVE A BOYFRIEND NOW. WHAT THE HELLLLL?????

ok I’ve said this before but IM DOING IT AGAIN THE FIRST TIME I SAW THIS, MY WISH DID COME TRUE SO I REBLOGED AGAIN AND SAID IT IN THE TAGS BUT THEN I WISHED FOR SMTH ELSE AND IT LITERALLY LITERALLY HAPPENED LIKE A COUPLE DAYS LATER WHAT THE HELL SO NOW IM WRITING THIS HERE FOR YOU BC I DONT BELIEVE IN THIS CRAP BUT STILL IT’S AN AWFULLY BIG COINCIDENCE

THE BOY I FELL I LOVE WITH LEFT TO TRAVEL THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD AND HAS BEEN GONE NOW FOR 3 MONTHS. WE HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE BECAUSE I DIDNT WANT TO MAKE HIM FEEL TRAPPED TO ME AND NOT ENJOY HIS TIME SO I WAITED FOR HIM TO CONTACT ME FIRST. I SAW THIS ON A PARTICULARLY LOW DAY WHEN I WAS MISSING HIM SO MUCH I CRIED FROM THE PAIN, GUYS I REALLY LOVE HIM, SO I THOUGHT MEH WHAT THE FUCK, AND WISHED HE WOULD JUST LET ME KNOW HE WAS OKAY.
GUYS.
HE FUCKING CALLED ME 20 MINUTES LATER
20 FUCKNG. MINUTES. LATER.
GOOD THINGS DO HAPPEN. AND ITS IN THIS POST.

I wish for someone to leave something in my ask.

OKAY SO I ASKED FOR A HEDGEHOG AND NOW GUESS WHO HAS A PET HEDGEHOG

THIS WORKED I WISHED FOR TEACHER RECOGNITION AND I GOT IT THE NEXT DAY.

this didn’t work with me as well

So I wished for my crush to like me back and guys it worked… BUT you gotta be specific caus in the end he admitted he still had feelings for another girl and yeah here I am still single and on this website :/

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i love listening to a song repeatedly until i hate it

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ever wonder how different your life would be if that one thing never happened